New swinger stories

My wife and I are talking about giving it a try, we are both in our sixties, still in good shape and enjoy our sex life, but would like to spice things up a bit. Either way, let their experiences give you a sneak preview on what it might involve.

However, if you've ever wondered if this may (or may not) be something you're into — here are 10 stories that will give you more insight than any Google search. It got me really into the sensual experience and meeting people who enjoyed it, as well.

Our first experience was

To ensure that you have a good time, below are three hot tip recommendations, straight from Venus Cuffs herself. Don't be afraid to say no and set boundaries. Consent and rules of engagement are typically involved in good spaces.

Also, nonsexual munches can be a great place to start and get to know people.

What Really Happens at

Picture this: couples exploring their boundaries, sharing laughter, and discovering new connections that challenge the norm. However, my first sex party was in November At around 9 p. The dungeon was divided into three parts: one had a couch, a wall of dildos, a standing cage, hoists, a spanking bench, and a big bed-like table.

My point: While your experience may vary for a number of reasons, the venue itself plays a big role. We begin the search for our first experience, join SDC, and begin talking and searching ending in our first successful meeting. Some parties encourage full-on orgies.

Curious to try out a sex party? If something or someone makes you uncomfortable, let someone know. Growing up, I always believed in marriage, settling down, having kids, and of course, monogamy. Cuffs says that people outside the BDSM community are often surprised to learn that most fetish or kink parties actually limit penetration, oral play, and, in some cases, even heavy petting.

Whether you're new to swinging, curious about the lifestyle, or a seasoned swinger looking for relatable stories, this video is a must-watch.

Why I Started Swinging

I started dating a couple who frequented swinger parties. Sex parties are exactly just that. Welcome to Doing Ita column where sex educator Varuna Srinivasan explores the deep connections between sex and emotions. Names have been changed.

Our First Unplanned Swinging

At some point in our lives, most of us have attempted to make out — or even get downright dirty — in the bathroom of a public venue, be it a nightclub, bar, or even an old-fashioned house party. It's a lot easier when you have a friend to lean on for support.

It's not free for all. This weekend we hosted an experienced couple to the house and sat and carried conversations on for a couple of hours with obvious attraction and interest. A typical event will have a space where people can chat and not play and get to know each other, as well as other various stations set up for different scenes to have fun.

Two weeks ago, we published John’s story, a year-old Singaporean man who has been swinging with his wife Mary since Now, we bring you the story from Mary’s perspective. Every experience is different, of course, so I spoke to eight women about their first time attending an event in one of these spaces.

My first experience was exciting because I went with [them], so we got a lot of attention because we were young, attractive, and all exhibitionists.

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But [they] will arrive and leave the party together and partake in couple-on-couple swaps. It can feel daunting to go to a party where any type of sexual activity is encouraged. Hi, I would be interested to hear about anyone's first time experiences of swinging.

Some are play parties that focus more on kink and not so much on penetration or heavy sexual activity. In a world where love and relationships come in all shapes and sizes, the swinger lifestyle adds a splash of spice that’s hard to ignore.

For us, our first experience was completely unplanned—and it changed our relationship forever. They are parties, like any social gathering, except the people attending can oftentimes have sex. Every couple’s journey into the swinger lifestyle is unique, filled with its own set of emotions, experiences, and discoveries.